watching: that 70's show
mood: exhausted

So I've decided I'm really tired of drama. I realized today that someone I had once thought of as a very good friend was pretty much the excat opposite. Marc & I have been friends with adam since the first time we met him. This was about a year and half ago. We met him bc he was dating someone and ended up moving in with someone whose friendship is long gone. But adam stayed. It makes me sad because I feel like marc is really losing a best friend and even though he isnt saying it I think he is sad about it. Previous blogs have explained all the drama with the becca girl so I don't even want to go into that but just for those who havent read it she's a girl who i was kinda friends with but now am not because shes an immature drunken slut. With that out of the way...Her and I were no longer friends and she blocked and ignored all of the friends we had except adam. I talked to adam last thursday and he told me he would call me friday morning to let me know if he needed me to leave a key out he never did. I called him that evening to see if he would watch our dogs saturday when we went to nashville but never got ahold of him. He had also said he might go hiking with us on sunday if he didnt come over friday. Yet again never heard from him and we always got his voicemail. We also noticed he had not been online in days. So today when he still hadnt been online or anything I left him a voicemail telling him we were worried about him and to call marc and let him know he was ok if he was mad at me. He never called us back and then I tried to call him and his phone was going to straight to his voicemail so we decided to go to the town where he lives which is like 30 minutes away. I figured I would either see him or talk to his mamaw. We get their and I go to turn in his driveway when I realize becca is there. Apparently he blew us off just to fool around with a girl. And just because we dont like that girl instead of just telling us and giving us a chance to respect his privacy and just not be around her. He assumes were going to act a certain way and just avoids us and lets us worry about him. I think thats really shitty of him.. Here's the email I sent him :


Subject: So......Um I guess I should name this: The last thing
i'll ever say to you..I hope you read it..Im not just
cussing you out lol

Body: So,
I don't even know what to say. I can't believe Marc and I drove all the way out to winchester to check on you because we thought something might have happened to you. I left you a voicemail letting you know we were worried and to at least call marc and say your alive or mad at me or whatever. Instead you let us worry because you put sleeping with someone above your friends. I do find it a little more offensive bc you knew it was with someone we didnt like but you didnt even attempt to say you didnt have our problem with her and see our reaction but instead you assumed you knew how we would act and just blew us off. I dont want you to think this is about who it was. It was about you not trusting us as your friends to respect your life and privacy and letting us worry about you when you were just too busy avoiding us bc you thought you knew how we would react. We both really considered you one of our best friends. Neither one of us would have seen this coming from you. I don't want to fight or aruge with you I just don't want anything to do with you. I want it to be like we never met you.

I think I handled as well I could...Oh well we ahad a backup groomsmen in case some had something come up :) ::::sigh:::: i hate drama

u know i was shocked to the core when my sales manager asked me "can you rate ur best friend whom u think will help u no matter what out of 10?"

i was dumbfounded because it finally hit me the question of friendship.
» renaye on 2007-09-11 11:25:57

Yeah, seems like you handled that well to me. Sucks to lose a friend, especially like that. But really, if someone will be like that, then what kind of friend are they in the first place?
» BigErn on 2007-09-12 08:04:04

Yeah thats what I told myself too. It hurt my feelings really bad. well the adam thing..becca can step in front of a bus lol.
» lyndeep on 2007-09-12 08:24:48

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